It has long been the stereotypes that conservatives were sex-hating prudes who wanted the state to rule everyone’s sex lives, while the Left cherished “privacy” and wanted to get the government “out of the bedroom.” This is the opposite of the truth.
The “right to privacy” over contraception involved forcing the government to deliver it. The “right to privacy” over abortion now includes forcing third parties to subsidize it. The “right to privacy” over sodomy is all about forcing bakers, florists, photographers, and pastors to validate it. It was never about the “right to privacy,” but the power to use government to support and subsidize these things, and by so doing, normalize anything and everything that wasn’t reproductive coitus for the purpose of having babies. In other words, the sexual views of the Left are those of the Marquis de Sade.
The Left have no compunction about violating the “right to privacy” when it suites their end. In California, there is already a drive to grab the private medical history of not just current porn stars, but former porn stars as well. Investigating the private sexual lives of one subpopulation is wrong if it is a politically correct subpopulation, but not for a politically incorrect subpopulation.
The ultimate goal, then, is neither a “right to privacy” nor engaging in any sex one wants free of “bourgeois” values and norms of coitus being about reproduction and the union of husband and wife, but the destruction of those very norms and values. If “privacy” or sexuality can be used to destroy those norms and values, then “privacy” is used as the casus belli for that destruction.

However, if that “privacy” shields people from the increasingly totalitarian nature of the Left’s sexual politics, then it is to be swept aside, with the government invading the bedroom in order to regulate every aspect of a person’s private sex life.
The “yes means yes” movement is trying to change the definition of rape from one of non-consent, either by inability to consent or explicit consent, to the assumption that all sex is rape unless each and every action, or change thereof, is assumed to be rape, and where consent is automatically considered lost if not explicitly reaffirmed in every exacting detail at least once every ten minutes!












